Was Charlotte Brontë
a Blurter? The evidence from Shirley
contributed by
Krista Ovist
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Illustration for Shirley by Thomas Heath Robinson (1869 - 1954)
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In
Chapter 12 of Shirley (1849),
Charlotte Brontë stages an intellectual yet intimate conversation between her
two heroines, Shirley Keeldar and Caroline Helstone. Towards the close of this conversation it
transpires that Caroline, who cherishes what she believes to be an unrequited love
for Robert Moore, once asked him for a lock of his hair. In telling Shirley about this incident, Caroline
reveals that every time she remembers it she suffers an attack of renewed humiliation. ‘It was my doing,’ she self-accuses,
one of those silly deeds it distresses the heart and sets
the face on fire to think of; one of those small but sharp recollections that
return, lacerating your self-respect like tiny penknives, and forcing
from your lips, as you sit alone, sudden, insane-sounding interjections.
If you’re not subject to
such ‘insane-sounding interjections’ yourself, you might easily breeze past these
lines without pause for thought. But if you’re
prone to this kind of private verbal seizure, your inner ears perk up. Your pulse quickens with self-recognition. You stop reading mid-page and assume a rapt
gaze as the colossal, self-mollifying thought wallops you: Charlotte Brontë was a blurter
too. How else could she have described
so precisely what this bizarre behaviour is like?
For most of my adult
life, I’ve been a secret blurter. It
happens when I’m engaged in some solitary mindless activity: filling the bath,
blow-drying my hair, washing the dishes, folding the laundry. Absurd words or phrases pop out of my mouth, many
of them unprintable, others just dumb:
‘I want
Rabbits!’ Do I? I wonder what for.
‘Rabbits,
rabbits, rabbits!’
‘Rabbity
bunnies!’
‘I love you!’
‘I hate you!’
‘I’m so
tired!’
‘Go away!’
‘Go the
f**king H*ll away!’
‘Shut up!
shut up! shut up!’
Mornings, in the
kitchen, while ironing a shirt for my husband (who’s safely out of ear-shot in
the shower), I glance at the clock on the cooker and announce ‘It’s eight-o-five.’
Sometimes it’s just a silly
sound, like a low-frequency vital sign: ‘Boopity-boo’.
I figured out long ago
that the vocalization, whatever comes out, is meant to shout down a rising recollection
of something that makes me uncomfortable.
But most of the time these automatic iterations arrive ahead of any conscious
thought; they swat the air before any memory has a chance to get there. They are a symptom of anxiety and are
exacerbated by social interaction. Any social
life I engage in – a transaction in a shop, a coffee hour after Sunday worship,
even a meeting of the venerable and benevolent Brontë Society, London and South
East Group – can trigger a spasm of nonsensical blathering as aftermath.
For the most part, I’ve
rarely given my little secret much thought.
Then, a few years ago, I noticed a decided spike in the frequency of my blurts
and one or two sudden innovations in my blurt repertoire. So I went online and tried to find out what
this curious verbal tic is. Does it have
a name? Does it progress to weirder
things? How goofy am I?
To my surprise, I found
no clear references to this phenomenon in any of the many mental health
webpages through which I sifted. There’s
something called Tourettic Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. That’s when obsessive intrusive thoughts give
rise to involuntary movements, noises, or utterances, as with Tourette
Syndrome. But, like Caroline, I blurt only
when I know I’m alone or at least fairly secluded. The words and phrases that escape me aren’t premeditated,
but they’re not exactly involuntary either.
I seem to be able to control the impulse without thinking about it and know
unconsciously when it’s safe to vociferate.
And there’s something
called a ‘cringe attack’. That seems
close, as it’s a wave of mortification brought on by reliving an embarrassing
moment. But absurd verbal irruptions don’t
appear to be diagnostic of such paroxysms.
I also learned about
studies of so-called ‘involuntary autobiographical memories’ (or IAMs), but
none of the researchers who write about these ‘mind pops’ seems interested in
the wacky words they sometimes prompt.
The most helpful
accounts I found came, not from medical authorities or clinical descriptions,
but from ordinary users of online Q&A sites and social anxiety support
groups. The best thread began with a question
originally posted on 22 July 2008 at healthandfitness.com and picked
up by the general information hub ask.metafilter.com.* A brave soul using the moniker ‘Alabaster’
wrote this now classic (to me) confessional query, under the heading ‘Compelled
to blurt...’:
What’s with my weird compulsion?
As far as I am aware, I am a mentally healthy, well-adjusted, and sane
person with no disorders. But I have a
strange, fairly innocuous quirk which seems beyond my control and I’m curious
about it...
When I think of/remember something embarrassing from my life, I
compulsively make some kind of noise. It
seems to happen unconsciously, before my censor can catch it and stop myself
(it even happens when I am in a quiet or inappropriate place).
It’s not especially loud, in fact it’s often under my breath. The sound is usually just a quiet grunt, or a
word/syllable or two. If I remember an
embarrassing conversation, I tend to blurt out a random word of the
conversation (as in, I’m replaying the dialogue in my head but then, all of a
sudden, one of the words pops out of my mouth). If it happens while I’m reading, I tend to
blurt out one or two of the words that happen to be under my eyes at the
moment.
It usually only happens when I’m remembering something palpably
embarrassing or humiliating from my life – not for mild everyday kind of stuff.
(Again, I had a fairly happy childhood
and have nothing particularly traumatic in my past – I don’t think my
embarrassing memories are any worse than the average Joe’s.)
So what is this, do I have some kind of low-grade Tourette’s syndrome? Is there a name for this phenomenon? Does it happen to others, or is it unique to
me?
It is in honour of
Alabaster that I call this phenomenon ‘blurting’; Alabaster named it first. A hundred and thirty people responded to
Alabaster, all elated to find that they were not alone and eager to relate
their experiences and share their ‘wince words’, as one contributor (yclept ‘yclipse’)
happily put it. People’s repertoires
were astonishingly similar to one another’s and to mine: predictably, there
were the expletives, but also the strange declarations of undying love and/or
hate, often directed at long forgotten ex-partners, but just as often offered
up to no one in particular. Here is a florilegium
of my favourites:
I do this
too. I say basically random words. It was “Harley Davidson” for a long time, and “hula
hoop” for a long time. I'm mostly able
to suppress it when there are people around, but not always. (Posted by ‘lastobelus’)
Yep, I do this. My word is “twelve.”
Or sometimes “Imagine twelve.” But I only do it on my own. I can stop myself. (Posted by ‘creeky’)
For me it’s an exasperated “Ahh! Kill me!” followed by a slight giggle. (Posted
by ‘tkolar’)
Mine are “givemeagun!”… and “ineedaknife”…. Lately, though, it’s been “Nobody!” I know that this last one used to mean
something, but I can’t even remember what.
(Posted by ‘Ian A.T.’)
…earlier this year, everything I said in those moments had something to
do with eyeballs. As in, “oh my
eyeball!” Or “blowing up your eyeballs
now.” (Posted by ‘Coatlicue’)
Oh, wow. I do this too all the
time, especially in the past 5 years or so.
One phrase that seems to be stuck in my head is “I want to go home.” I have no idea where it came from and I often
say it... you know... at home. This
thread makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.
(Posted by ‘brundlefly’)
I am reading this with my jaw dropped in awe. I laughed, I cried, I became aware. Blurting is what I do mostly. Sometimes I’ll shake the memory out or clench
my hand. But sometimes a word will just
pop into my head and “chinchilla” is floating out there. WTF?? I’m laughing so hard right now. (Posted by ‘eddiebaby’)
One
contribution was especially relevant to the question here investigated – viz. was
Charlotte Brontë a blurter? A literary-minded
poster known by the sobriquet ‘arcanecrowbar’ wrote:
An aside about this – a few years ago I was reading Dickens’ Bleak House for the first time. Somewhere in that novel (sorry I have no way
of finding the passage!) Dickens follows a minor character around for a while
and gives an exact description
of this phenomenon – the guy has a memory of an acutely embarrassing event and
gets out of it by mumbling some nonsense phrase to himself.
I have to say I’ve ransacked
Bleak House without finding any
character I’d spot for a proper blurter.
Mr Guppy is certainly a painfully awkward soul, and Mr Jarndyce has his ‘growlery’
where he goes when he’s in a foul mood, and Dickens depicts the latter lapsing
into sotto voce commentaries intelligible
only to himself, but neither character is ever observed, in an unguarded moment
alone, in the grip of a really good blurt fit. Be that as it may (and I may have overlooked what
arcanecrowbar had in mind), the important point is this: whereas it’s easy to
imagine that Dickens, a noted social animal, wrote about human eccentricities
based on close observation of others, it’s almost impossible to resist the inference
that Charlotte Brontë gave Caroline Helstone this idiosyncrasy based on her own
personal experience. As with everything
she knew about intimately, she worked it into her fiction.
This is my bold thesis,
then: Caroline’s discourse in Chapter 12 of Shirley
constitutes compelling warrant for concluding that Charlotte Brontë was a
blurter.
But why end the wild speculation
there? This passage plants other fancies
in my brain. Dare we take the next step
and conjecture that Charlotte Brontë once asked Constantine Heger for a lock of
his hair and that, forever after, the recollection of this show of hopeless devotion
sent her into throes of explosive blurts?
I think so.
We know that Charlotte,
even though she found the courage to brave the wider world, was never
comfortable outside her closest circle of family and friends. Like most people with social anxiety, she
probably imagined that she had behaved foolishly or said something stupid after
nearly every human contact, and she probably blurted over the least
encounter. But her comportment over
Heger must have afforded her a generous store of blurt-worthy memories. Never mind what she may have said to him
directly; if I had written some of those abject letters she sent him, I for one
would blurt for all I’m worth every time the post hit the floor.
If it is extracting too
much from this passage to suppose that the specific detail of having asked an
object of romantic feeling for a lock of hair was drawn from life, then I
submit that this detail is the fictionalization of some similar Heger-related
indiscretion. Such indiscretions, this
passage tells us, tormented Charlotte Brontë and goaded her to outbursts that
appalled her but probably also gave her fits of private giggles she shared with
no one – no one, that is, except for readers likewise afflicted who find in
Caroline’s words the confessions of a fellow-blurter.
So, what, I
wonder, were Charlotte Brontë’s favourite wince words?
‘Stumps!’?
‘Sneaky!’?
‘Imagine
twelve!’? (Well, she did.)
‘I love Wellington!’?
Perhaps her
blurts are legible in that strange exclamation – ‘Stuff! Phd!’ – in the Roe
Head Journal entry beginning ‘I’m just going to write because I cannot help
it’.
Or maybe her
blurts were in French.
‘Je t’aime!’?
‘Je te deteste!’?
‘J'ai besoin
d'un couteau!’?
‘Nous faisons
exploser vos globes oculaires maintenant!’?
Some things
we’ll just never know.
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Illustration for Shirley by C.E. Brock (1870 - 1938) |
Listen!... I think she's about to blurt.